Wednesday, January 2, 2013
Thinking of Me
I know it is just a TV show, but Go On really hit the nail on the head in one scene when Ryan (Matthew Perry's character - the widower) was talking to his assistant, Carrie. He was making a real pain of himself, showing up where ever she was with her girlfriends to hang out, and making her work late simply because he didn't like going home to his empty house. After all this, finally, in one scene, she tells him that he has to stop following her around, and he tells her that one of the things he misses the most is knowing that someone is thinking of him even though they are not together. Carrie promises to think of him when they are not together, and even sends him a text when he goes to a basketball game reminding him to take an antacid if he plans on eating nachos.
If I had to pick something that hurts the most about being a widow, is the fact that Bobby is no longer around, thinking of me even when I am not there. Nobody is missing me, or wondering if I'm taking care of myself. It may seem selfish thinking this way, but I cannot help it....it hurts. He used to send me emails at work during the day that would simply say, "I miss you." He would randomly hug me for no reason. He would make me tea and rub my back when I didn't feel well, and I didn't even have to ask. I hope he knew how much all that meant to me!! They made me feel special, a feeling I haven't had in a very long time.
Posted by Me at 6:53 AM